There’s a relationship fantasy that has nothing to with getting physical. Rather, it’s verbal. And the climax isn’t orgasm; it’s that ever-elusive concept of “closure.”In this fantasy, maybe you’re berating your ex for ghosting, or mustering up all the perfect comebacks at the exact right moments. Or maybe they have had a rare flash of self-awareness and are apologizing for how they hurt you when you were together; you were right in every single argument, they admit, and they were wrong. In response, all you do is sit there, smile and say: “Thank you.”That’s the fantasy. But reality is often more frustrating.So how do you get closure…
